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Dr. Rachel de Simone

I'm an integrative physical therapist specializing in a holistic, nervous system informed approach to pain. Subscribe to my newsletter for weekly messages to inspire courage and nervous system resilience.

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Is Pain "All in Your Head"?

Greetings, Reader! I've been hearing a lot of people use phrases like "Pain is in the brain" to talk about chronic pain, and I want to rephrase that statement, because it can easily be misinterpreted as "Pain is all in your head." If you've lived with chronic pain, you are probably tired of having to prove that your pain is real, so I think it is important that we explain pain with words that do not have that undertone. Pain is not all in your head. Saying "Pain is in the Brain" sounds...

Letters for resilience and courage

Greetings, Reader! I had the honor of being one of the featured speakers at the Vermont Womenpreneur's Summit this week! The theme was gratitude, and I spoke about how my journey through the underworld of chronic pain taught me how to listen to my body's wisdom and develop a nervous system-informed approach to pain. It was so powerful to share my story publicly, and inspiring to hear the other speakers' stories. We each had such different experiences and perspectives, but the common thread...

Letters for resilience and courage

Greetings, Reader! When something in my body hurts, I usually jump to three questions: What's wrong? Is it serious? How do I make it stop? As a physical therapist and a chronic pain survivor, I know how scary pain can be, especially if you've had difficulty resolving pain in the past. It is a natural instinct to want to get rid of the pain as soon as possible because, let's face it, pain is not pleasant. In fact, the (now outdated) definition of pain that I learned in grad school was: Pain is...

Letters for resilience and courage

“There is a place in the heart where everything meets.Go there if you want to find me.Mind, senses, soul, eternity, all are there.Are you there? Enter the bowl of vastness that is the heart.Give yourself to it with total abandon,listen to the song that is always resonating there. Quiet ecstasy is there —and a steady, regal sense of resting in a perfect spot. Once you know the waythe nature of attention will call you to return,again and again, and be saturated with knowing,'I belong here, I am...

Letters for resilience and courage

"A congested heart, one burdened with unexpressed sorrow, cannot stay open to the world and, consequently, cannot be fully available for the healing work so needed at this time." ~ Francis Weller Greetings, Reader! One of my favorite qigong forms from the spring series I've been teaching is called punching with an angry gaze. It is a simple movement that starts in a steady, grounded stance. On each exhale, you slowly and deliberately punch forward with alternating hands. The movement is...

Greetings, Reader! Have you ever eaten a juicy peach and marveled that anything could taste that good? Or smelled the intoxicating scent of honeysuckle wafting through the air on a summer stroll? Have you ever cried over the beauty of a sunset, or been in awe of the dawn breaking over a snow covered mountain? The trance of unworthiness is so seductive. I have never expected a peach to be more like a pear, or thought that honeysuckle should be more productive in order to be worthwhile, but I...

Greetings, Reader! Did you know that the Parasympathetic Nerves are CranioSacral Nerves? A simple way to improve sleep and digestion, and to reduce stress, pain, and overwhelm is to work with the CranioSacral regions of the body to activate the Rest and Digest portion of your nervous system. The Autonomic Nervous System has two branches that work in opposition to each other to maintain homeostasis. The Sympathetic Nervous System's job is to mobilize the body. It is activated by the three E's:...

Greetings, Reader! When I worked at Bryn Mawr College many years ago, my boss, Marjorie, would often say "I'm going to meditate on that" when she had to make a big decision. I always took that to mean that she would contemplate her options, much in the same way that people often say they need to "process" their emotions or experiences. I'm fascinated by language and how our language shapes our thoughts and experiences. [In fact, I took a neuroscience course in my second year of college that...

Letters for resilience and courage

Greetings, Reader! Thank you to everyone who replied to my last email. It was a delight to reconnect with so many people. Sending these messages sometimes feels a bit like releasing a carrier pigeon into the wild and hoping the message gets delivered. I can’t tell you how much it means to me to know that my messages are not just being received, but are resonating. In this wild world, connection is everything, and I’m grateful to be in relationship with you. Last week I shared a the myth of...

Letters for resilience and courage

Greetings, Reader! I've always been captivated by mythology and how people use stories to understand their world. [Fun fact: In elementary school, my favorite book was D'Aulaires Book of Greek Myths, and I played the Goddess Hera in the school play!] I'm currently studying and teaching a qigong series based on the five Sacred Guardians, who are the protectors of the dharma. The ancient Chinese people observed these guardians in seasonal star constellations and believed they helped to shepherd...